In less than a month, E will be two. And the oh so fun child developmental stage we are in now is: I’m-a-toddler-and-it-is-mine. Oh we have our moments of generosity, but he’s still a toddler!
It’s a part of being a toddler. I get it. But its never to early to start teaching a child the joy of giving.
Yesterday, I finished up my Christmas cards and thought it would be fun for E to make a card for his little best friend, “Day-Den” (translation: Caden.)
We got out a blank card and some stickers and he very strategically placed each sticker, happily exclaiming “no man! no man!” (translation: snowman! snowman!) and “Tar Tar!” (translation: Star Star!) and “baw baw!” (translation: Ball Ball! which in this case translates into ornament.)
Each sticker was placed on that paper with true passion and excitement!
I asked him if he was all done and he proudly looked up at me and said “all done!” And then proceeded to lick the card.
My first thought -“uhh why are you slurping the Christmas card?”
Then I realized he had been sitting at the table watching me close the rest of the Christmas card envelopes.
He must have thought that is what you do! Monkey see, monkey do.
This is life with a toddler!
After slurping his card, I asked him if he was happy to give this card to Caden. He looked at me and smiled and hugged his card.
My heart melted. (This was my favorite part!)
After filling Caden’s Christmas card with lots of love, we walked out to the mailbox and as we did, Eli yelled out “Day-den! Day-den!”
He put the card in the mailbox all by himself, closed it and waved bye bye to his friend’s Christmas card.
He had just experienced the joy of giving.
Merry Christmas to our very special friend, Caden!
viviene @ thejourneyofawoman says
I’m not sure my previous comment was saved. Anyway, his picture hugging the card he made was touching.. =) He’s so sweet.
Merry Christmas, Steph! =)
viviene @ thejourneyofawoman says
Sweet.. I love that photo of him hugging the card he made. It’s so special.. =) Merry Christmas, Stephanie! =)
Patty@homemakersdaily.com says
It’s never too soon to start things like that. Love the red hair. Both my kids have red hair, too.
Visiting from SITS.
Stephanie @ CrayonmarksandTigerstripes says
There is just something about that red hair that everybody loves! We make a game out of seeing how many people will stop us and comment on his hair when we are out at the store. It’s so funny!
Becca says
So sweet! I have a 19 month old little boy and trying to figure out how to teach them giving is a huge deal and no small task. Thanks for sharing an easy idea. Found you through SITS SHarefest.
Stephanie @ CrayonmarksandTigerstripes says
You are so right! But teaching them is fun and rewarding! Thanks for stopping by!